This issue contains:

A. Main Article:

"The Power Of 'Matching' Your Communications -- Part 2"
- By Bob Scheinfeld

B. Special Announcement

A. "The Power Of 'Matching' Your Communications -- Part 2"

- By Bob Scheinfeld

My last article on what I call "energetic mismatches" was one of the most enthusiastically received articles I've ever written. I got a ton of requests to do a "sequel," so here it is!

If you didn't read part one, you can find it here:

http://www.livingtheultimatelifestyle.com/july-05.html

The secret of matching all communications is absolutely one of the most potent "weapons" in my arsenal of success.

Everything I've created in my business, personal life and relationships has been accelerated or turbo-charged by my habit of making sure all my communications are matched.

First, a quick review. Whenever you communicate with another person, whether it's face to face, on the phone, through audio or video recording, or the written word, there are two channels of communication being sent and received simultaneously.

The first is what you experience with your physical senses - what you see and hear. I call this "surface communication."

The second is what you experience with your non-physical senses, what you'd call intuition, sixth sense, gut instinct, etc. I call this "energetic communication."

Whether you admit it or not, or consciously track it or not, you're receiving lots of information through both channels all the time. You don't need to "be psychic" or "gifted" to do this. We all do it. It's our natural state.

Based on that fact, there are 2 things you must realize:

1. If the information flowing through both channels "matches," that is, they're saying the same thing, the communication is effective and has tremendous positive impact. If there's a mismatch, however, meaning the surface communication says one thing, and the energetic communication says something else, there will be problems. People will sense the mismatch and on some level, it'll bother them or raise a red flag about you or your communication.
   
   
2. The energetic component is much more powerful in determining the ultimate effectiveness of communication. We all think the surface communication is what counts, but it's really the energetic communication that has the real power.

When the messages you send through the surface and energetic channels matches, people sense it and it automatically makes them more comfortable with you. It doesn't guarantee they'll do what you want them to do, but they'll have more trust in you and receptivity to you and that's very important in relationships, business and personal.

When the messages you send through the surface and energetic channels don't match, people sense the mismatch and it sets off alarm bells within them. The alarm bell may sound quiet to them, just a whisper, or it may seem like a loud scream (depending on the person's sensitivity to energy and the power of the person creating the mismatch), but they will sense it and it always holds the potential to have major negative or limiting impact.

If a person senses a mismatch from you and it makes them uncomfortable, they may pull away from you (whatever that looks like in your personal or business life). They might not even realize they're pulling away, or know why they're doing it, but they'll do it nonetheless.

I'm sure you've had experiences with someone you knew had screaming mismatches in their communications (personal or business), and yet they still seemed to be successful in something they did despite that fact. In such cases, one of two things is usually going on:

1. The people drawn into the "mismatcher's" orbit and with whom the mismatcher was successful with, actually resonates with the mismatched energy (often because they do the same thing) and it was therefore "positive" or "neutral" to them and didn't appear to have negative or limiting impact.
   
   
2. Even if #1 above happens, however, my belief, and experience, is that somewhere in the brains of the people interacting with mismatchers, they store a record that they've been mismatched by the mismatcher, and if they continue to sense mismatches, even if they're quiet or unconscious to them, the cumulative effect of all the mismatches ultimately makes them turn away for good.

In personal life, that may mean a relationship ending, someone reaching out to you less frequently, arguments, etc. In business it may mean lost sales, customer service challenges, loyalty erosion, etc.

Everyone is free to make their own choices in life and different people have different definitions of "integrity."

For myself, I choose to insist on matching all my communications.

I live my life from the belief that everything I'm thinking and feeling is being consciously heard loud and clear by everyone I'm interacting with, and I make adjustments as needed based on that belief.

I'll share one last tidbit with you now and then we'll end for this issue. It's my feeling, and experience, that the volume on the energetic side of life is rising higher and higher at this point in history. It's my belief that mismatches that used to be experienced as gentle whispers are now being experienced as louder voices and one day in the not too distant future, they'll be experienced as screams.

This is the sort of dynamic that led me to make the mismatch discovery in the first place. For some reason, I was born with the volume turned up on my energetic communication and I had to learn to live with the effects of that at a very young age.

When I was a kid and even through my twenties, it was real confusing for me. But then I "got it" and I started making sure all my communications were matched. I saw the power of it and I've never turned back!

I therefore give you my strongest recommendation to get your act together on this now and develop the skill and habit of matching ALL your communications so as the volume continues to rise on our energetic communications, your effectiveness and success grows by leaps and bounds, instead of crashes and burns.

Note: If you like what you read here and you'd like to learn more about mismatches and how the invisible world shapes what happens to you in the visible world, check out my 11th Element book and home study system here:

http://www.11thelement.com

Until next issue ...

B. Special Announcements

Are you in debt? Would you like to make more money? If you're making a lot of money now, would you like the process of making and managing it to be much easier and less stressful?

If so, please read the rest of this special announcement right now.

For years I've been teaching people how to tap power sources in "the invisible world" to create success in their lives.

However, as I continued my journey, I discovered that while the systems I developed and taught made me infinitely better at playing The Money Game, and enabled me to amass my own fortune, it didn't allow me to bust loose from the game altogether, or rise above its traditional rules and regulations.

I realized there were additional puzzle pieces I hadn't yet found. To use a popular phrase from Alice In Wonderland and the movie "The Matrix," I realized I could go even deeper down "the rabbit hole."

Let me explain what I mean by that. What I discovered through my own experiences (of making money, crashing and burning and "being rich"), and through my relationships with hundreds of other extremely wealthy people (including some of the wealthiest in the world), is that The Money Game is a game you can't win.

No matter how well you play it, and no matter how much money you pile up while playing, The Money Game always leads to "failure" in the form of stress, anxiety, pain or disillusionment -- if you play according to the rules, regulations and structures you're taught growing up.

I discovered it doesn't work to simply play The Money Game better. You've got to actually bust loose from The Money Game entirely and start playing a new game with a new set of rules and regulations. That's when life transforms and gets really exciting!

On October 28, 29, 30, 31, I'm once again offering my "Busting Loose From The Money Game" live event. At that event, I'll be revealing my "Busting Loose Process," and how to harness it to make money a total non-issue in your life.

No more worrying about bills or the balance in your checkbook. No more asking "Can I afford that?" Or "Should I buy that?" No more worrying about the in and out flow of money in your life, about your assets and liabilities, personal income, savings, debt, profits or taxes.

No more stress from managing whatever amount of money you've piled up. No more working your butt off to "make ends meet" or carve out a little pleasure or luxury in your life. No limits or restrictions of any kind as it relates to money.

I'm talking about major "outside the box" thinking and living here. Sound unbelievable? I assure you, it's very real and absolutely doable - if you know how.

I don't care what you think you know about money, wealth and abundance, or how many books, tapes or seminars you've experienced on those topics, this event is major renegade stuff and I guarantee you've never experienced anything like it before.

Details are here:

http://www.bobscheinfeld.com/blmgchoice.html

P. S. If you go to the webpage above and watch the multimedia invitation to this event, you'll see an excellent example of how I'm playing with fine-tuning the energetic component of communication while de-emphasizing the surface component.

Enjoy!

Well, that's it for this issue. Until next issue, keep smiling!.

 

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